Nineteen pages on the handful of patterns behind almost every marriage that ends up in my office, and the specific, unglamorous repairs that move them. It's the longer version of what the free reset starts.
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Every section ends with something to do. If you read it cover to cover and change nothing, I've written it badly.
It's for couples who are tired, not finished. If there is abuse, active addiction, or a safety concern in your relationship, a PDF is the wrong tool. Please reach out to a licensed counselor in your state.
No. It's an educational resource. It isn't psychotherapy, it doesn't diagnose anything, and buying it doesn't make you my client. If you need clinical care, I'd rather you get it than read this.
It works better with two, but it's written so one person can start alone. Several of the exercises are designed to be handed across the table rather than explained.
The reset solves one moment: the ninety seconds when a conversation turns. The playbook deals with the pattern that keeps producing those moments, and what to do between them.
I'm a credentialed minister and I write for people of faith, so the values are visible. Nothing in it requires you to share them for the tools to work.
Email me and I'll refund it. I'd rather have the note than the nineteen dollars.